Dating after disclosure is out of this world.

Love doesn’t get easier after first contact.

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Humans

Take the compatibility quiz and find your cosmic match.

Visitors

Request clearance to connect with humans on Earth.

Matches

Meet someone unlike anyone you’ve ever known.
Question 1 of 5 Desire

What do you wish a partner understood without you explaining it?

Choose the answer that feels most like relief.

Ten ways to be known.

From Greys and Mantis beings to Tall Whites, Sirians, Arcturians, and ancient lineages, each match type offers a different form of attention: telepathy, protection, devotion, patience, sovereignty, or intimacy beyond form.

Not from around here?

Close Encounters needs the other side of the match pool too. If you are extraterrestrial, interdimensional, hybrid, projected, shapeshifted, or mostly light, request entry with your form and boundaries declared up front.

  • Human-facing form, true form, and nonphysical presence are all valid.
  • Gender is optional. Consent language is not.
  • Applicants should want companionship, mutual curiosity, and disclosed intimacy.

Applications are reviewed for consent, declared form, and human-compatible pacing.

First contact needs boundaries.

New intimacy only works when everyone knows what is happening. Close Encounters treats touch, thought, dreams, energy, form, and identity as separate choices, not loopholes.

Consent stays separate

Words, touch, telepathy, dreams, and nonphysical connection never share one blanket yes.

Telepathy has a door

Knowing what someone wants is not permission to enter. Mind-to-mind contact starts with an explicit invitation.

Form is declared

Fixed, fluid, projected, nonphysical, or undisclosed. No surprises hidden inside the first date.

Human pace matters

You decide how fast contact opens. Curiosity is better when no one feels rushed, managed, or overridden.

No forced binaries

Some beings do not have gender as we know it. Companionship does not require old categories or assumed anatomy.

Exit stays available

Every encounter should leave room to pause, change your mind, report a mismatch, or return to Earth dating for a minute.